A memorial service usually occurs after a cremation or burial. It can take place immediately following this but more often is held days, weeks or even months later.
I can perform a similar service to the one described in Funerals, but you have much more flexibility over where and when you have the event. That might mean being able to accommodate more of those wishing to attend the memorial as it could be held at the weekend, for example, whereas funerals are usually held during the week.
Another advantage is that there are no time constraints. Most funerals are now held in crematorium chapels where ceremonies are often limited to about 20 to 40 minutes. Memorials, however, can be held in any venue and can last as long as they need to.
Memorials often involve more people (both contributing and attending), and the ceremonies usually have a more upbeat feel to them. Time is likely to have passed since the death and those who knew the person have an opportunity to come together to share memories, and to celebrate their life.
A family may wish to celebrate a life with a truly unique event. It might feature performances or live music, eating, drinking or dancing. As an ex-performer myself, I know some wonderfully talented actors who could take part. I also have associates who play in bands and my wife is a member of the Royal Liverpool Philharmonic Orchestra. Please feel free to pick my brain if you’re looking for something a little different.